“A foolish woman is clamorous; she is simple, and knows nothing” (Proverbs 9:13).
MANY PORTRAY WOMEN as people who always talk too much, leading them to fall into indiscretions, reveal secrets and disclose other things that are none of their business. In the Bible we find a very fitting counsel regarding this matter, “Discretion will preserve you; understanding will keep you, to deliver you from the way of evil” (Proverbs 2:10, 11).
Discretion is having the sense to speak or act in any given situation based on coherent, accurate and sensible judgment. According to the Webster’s Dictionary, it’s the “Quality of having or showing discernment or good judgment, the quality of being discreet, circumspection especially, cautions reserve in speech, the ability to make responsible decisions.” To be discreet is to be prudent, in the sense of being assertive but at the same time reserved.
It means saying the right thing, in the proper way and at the time. It’s certainly a difficult virtue to develop, but it’s possible with God’s help. There is no dough that it’s essential to develop discretion in every area of life.
Discretion requires well-balanced thinking and self-control. A discreet woman thinks before speaking, because she uses her intelligence to discern what she will say and how she will say it. It’s good to remember that “in the multitude of words Sin is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is wise (Proverbs 10:19).
Esther is a clear example of feminine discretion. She knew how to wait for the right time to present herself before the king and win over his respect and admiration. She held her emotions back intelligently and didn’t allow her impulses to betray her, even though she had more than enough reason to do so. Abigail is another case of feminine discretion in the Bible. Her good judgment in knowing what to say and what not to prevented many deaths and was the key tor her to become a king’s wife.
Reflecting in Christ will lead us to realize that gossiping, offensive comments, intentionally discrediting people, spreading rumors and half-truths are destructive to those who utter them and cause moral damage to others. That’s why speaking, listening and acting with discretion is a highly valued jewel. Let us keep it; let us submit out words and actions to God’s scrutiny If we pass, we will be masters ot good; if we fail, it’s time to teach our minds to be self-disciplined and place our tongues under the Holy Spirit’s control.
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Take From: Daily Devotions for Women’s 2021
«BRUSHSTROKES OF GOD’S LOVE»
BY: Erna Alvarado Poblete
Collaborators: Lorina Maya & Magda S
